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The blood-rush after climax depletes the muscles of energy-producing glycogen, and because men have more muscle mass than women, they feel more exhausted. Watch it again, people--she's doing a bad job of faking it. Here are some real reasons men fall asleep after intercourse: Fact 1 Sex during the night, especially when the human body is already tired, becomes the first argument for the state of sleepiness that occurs after having sex.

The reasons women fake it often have to do with satisfying the male ego and also to get it over with so the man will ejaculate and it will be over. I have a feeling that he feels like I always have and wants to please his woman, but the body has limits. Doing so may stop you from the danger of hurting the person you love.

sleeping during sex!?!?!?!? at Sex & Sexual Health Forum, topic 532667

Is it dangerous to deny your husband sex. You compromise your marriage vows — and possibly your marriage itself. Long ago, in my first marriage, as my husband was walking out on our life, I was somewhat shocked to discover that he had been drawn to another woman. I see clearer now what I did not comprehend then. I know what some of you are thinking. But the flip side is he may hate staying. Though his heart, hands and feet may not wander to other beds, his eyes and thoughts easily could. I hear from husbands all the time who… …hate the situation they are in. He knows that sexual intimacy is an incredibly bonding force created by the Lord to strengthen married couples and endear them to one another. When you disregard sex, you give Satan one more firm foothold on which to stand as he relentlessly seeks to cause division in your marriage. I pray too that the harshness of those realities does not shame you or guilt you to your knees, but humbly brings you surrendered to your knees. Ask the Lord to help you reclaim the ground in your marriage that has been given to Satan… especially any ground that you gave to him. Well, if he is like most husbands, one of the ways he best receives that love is when you regularly enjoy sex with him. What does it mean to you when I make sex a priority. Doing so may stop you from the danger of hurting the person you love. You ignore time-tested wisdom of nearly every marriage counselor. The very people who make their living from listening to distraught couples in desperately broken places would tell you that when sex is ignored in a marriage, danger is lurking just around the corner. Counselors become intimately aware of the costs that are paid when a husband or wife has forsaken their marriage bed, whether it be to another lover or simply to selfish or careless neglect. You tell God that He must be wrong. Whenever he wife falls asleep during sex of marriage, including sexual intimacy, He longs for us to understand its significance. Through a lot of soul searching and humble reflection, I know that long ago I had a hand in putting my first marriage in danger. Jacob November 14, 2016 at 10:18 pm Sucks, especially when you joke about playing toys and she gets excited then a few mins later you initiate sex and she says boldly no. When you are not connected so much continues to separate you even more. Death of marriage thru being strangers, on different planets…. Trevor W March 7, 2017 at 11:23 am My fiancee and I have only been intimate 7 times in the last 7 months. She teases alot then never follows through and gets angry when I bring it up. I called her out on now needing them to become aroused and she got mad at me…which is how I know Im right. She has since deleted the app Wattpad, but the whole reaosn I got upset is because on more wife falls asleep during sex one occasion I saw that she had left the app open…while I was in the shower, and she jumped me afterwards…but I saw what she was reading right before and it killed me…She was raised a princess no believing or admitting that anything might be her fault is out of the question for her… Julie Sibert March 7, 2017 at 6:20 pm Trevor W — I encourage you and your fiancee to stop having sex until you are married. God designed sex for marriage, and as difficult as it may be to obey this command, He still asks that we do. I also encourage you and your fiancee to have some open honest discussions, possibly with a counselor, about what could be barriers to your intimacy once you are married. Nurtured sexual intimacy in a marriage takes effort, but it is worth it. And part of what makes it strong and healthy is identifying problems and struggles and doing all you can to resolve those. Blaine April 1, 2017 at 7:57 am When struggling in our relationship it becomes a tool for my wife to stress her anger or dis-satisfaction with us. Especially when I ask repeatedly and there is always a no. I have already been in one marriage that this was a major problem. I love my wife more than any person on earth and want grow old with her. Wife falls asleep during sex love sex and will do anything, even concede winning a fight to get sex. I knew that if I fought with my spouse that I not get sex. As I treasured sex I will probably terminate the fight to save my chances of getting sex soon. If you are in a sexless marriage me now and a fight erupts, you have nothing to loose, there are no natural brakes to stop the fight. You go harder and move vicious. A sexless marriage makes you feel rejected, lonely, unhappy, frustrated, ugly etc When my kids shout at my wife I look the other way. Why protect someone who for years rejects you. Who are we to say we know the mind of god. Anyone to suggest that is just kidding themselves. As for myself, my wife rejected me for the first 15 years of marriage, we only had sex once a month. I think she chose once a month because it was just barely enough to keep me around. It only increased after that because I discovered she was cheating and forgave her… but I later discovered she kept cheating with many different men over the years. Thanks to my stupid Catholic upbringing, I always forgave and stayed. Craig October 1, 2017 at 1:26 pm My wife and I have been married 30 years now and have 3 children now adults. Yes I have brought this to her. I have come to the decision that I either live in this loveless hell, find a lover outside our marriage or leave…. But I do not want any of them… I want my sexy loving wife back… Robert October 16, 2017 at 9:39 pm The sad fact is that many women do not appreciate, or show respect to the man they married. And it goes the other way too. As Christians, the greatest gift we have is the gift of love. Jesus told us so many times in the bible to love one another as I have loved you. To all the wives, I would say this: Love your husband like its the last day you will see him. Look forward to sex with enthusiasm, even if your not up to it, show it anyway. When we allow being tired, stress, the kids, the office to come before sex, the enemy wins. Get into counseling, and do what ever it takes to stay happily married. Getting a divorce or thinking that a new lover will solve the problem is an illusion. Stay with what God gave you, and make it work. Sex for men is respect, and love. Without sex, men will always feel rejected and not want to contribute to the home. Sex for women is about intimacy, without sex, women feel horribly alone, and ugly. Do whatever it takes to please your spouse. William January 17, 2018 at 10:11 am More than five years ago my wife told me she no longer wanted to be intimate sexually. In hindsight, I thought it was because of her age, and the fact she had colon cancer. Then she said it was too painful and then she told me basically she has lost interest. My heart dropped, I felt devastated. I could not believe what I was saying. I have asked her to attend marriage counseling and she said no, we ought to be able to talk about our problems together. Whenever I bring up the topic of discussing our relationship, she skirts the issue and refuses to talk. I realize that I have allowed myself to fall victim of emotional abuse by my own wife of 23 years;because I thought one day she would change. I prayed and asked for guidance. I no longer feel I am capable of being just a roommate to a women I thought loved me. I have decided to go to marriage counseling alone and will hope for the best. I have a daughter from this marriage. I feel lost and abandoned by God. I am 59 years old and a very responsible man. Sensitive at times but a person who just wants to love and be loved. I have put up with more than I should have and feel like a fool for doing so. I am not certain as to the outcome of my marriage. If we have to end it,so be it. I can not allow myself to be manipulated any longer by someone who I thought cared about me. Patrick February 17, 2018 at 10:03 am Wow, I do think men have a hard time communicating their feelings. When I read this… …hate the situation they are in. There is no empathy, just pride and defensiveness. Any feelings of need I have threaten her independence and become just another burden on her life. She spends hours and hours each day on herself. My needs, even if they only require 30 mins per day, are too precious to her. I truly feel like we lost the truth in the meaning of reverence. Men are rarely reverenced today, despite the love given to women. Yet, women are more depressed than ever, drink and commit suicide more than ever, and wonder why. Feminism has done some good, but overall, has killed relationships and family. Most women would not identify as feminists, but the bombardment of propaganda out there seeps in changes the way they think and act. March 18, 2018 at 3:01 am There are some on here that blame the victim of a sexless marriage and in some cases that may be true since one can legitimately reject sexual relations in serious circumstances such as harm to the baby or an adulterous spouse. But most of these cases on here are spouses that are atleast trying to love their spouse, maybe sometimes imperfectly l, but stil their spouse is not givimg the marriage debt usually to a selfish reason where there are no excuses. Im Catholic and one can also legitimately reject intersourse with ones spouse for little or no reason on occasion but never for long periods of time. To reject a spouse for long periods of time is an objective mortal sin. So another words it is grave matter and if done fully deliberate and with the knowlege that it is a serious sin is an actual mortal sin that can send one to hell. I myself am in a 13 year bascially sexless marriage wife falls asleep during sex after reading some of these posts I have some ideas I may use to try to communicate with my spouse. Pray prayers of deliverance from the devil and pray for the help of St. Sex with wife falls asleep during sex was good when it happened cause I wife falls asleep during sex she was crazy but that became less and less till I stayed far from her when she worked as a prostitute and took drugs. Some stupid counselor had his brains in his bottom draw filing cabinet asking me if I was willing to have a marriage without the sex…. Now in my second marriage, once again sex is a looming issue. I am deeply focused on enjoying giving her a deeply satisfying sometimes agonizing orgasm. I can achieve that with great satisfaction on my part 95% of the time. I help with the kids, house keeping and being the only breadwinner. Now with serious deterioration of her health physically and mentally over the last 5 years, it is affecting us financially, spiritually, sexually, intellectually, and daily life with 3 kids is a dead bore. They get to go nowhere and do nothing, but the lack of intimacy truly is the hardest issue to deal with. All work no play makes Jack a dull boy. At 45 I have the daunting decision to keep my vows of the dark trifecta sickness, poorer, wife falls asleep during sex worse and except this is for the rest of our life or break them once again by leaving for my sanity and the sanity of my children. God does not respect a vow breaker. Fact is there is something seriously wrong with our people and our society. John June 22, 2018 at 6:10 pm If you are a wife reading these responses with a heart to do better in your sexual response to your husband, I hope he knows how lucky he is. Stuck in a Christian marriage with sex 2-3 times a year in a good year. Suffering horribly since my wife is the only one I want, and the only one I can legally and Bibicaly have. Suffering with years of rejection, not only from non sex, but from no intimate action at all. I used to try talking about it, but have grown tired of getting my head chewed off. She thinks her libido is just fine and has zero desire to change. She has no idea how much I suffer and probably never will. Lars July 18, 2018 at 11:59 am My wife slowed down over a seven-year period. About 5 years ago it came to a grinding halt. Her single mother has lived within a mile of us for the last 15 years of our marriage. I think she had a lot to do with it. There was never a leaving and cleaving. And provided her a real nice living. Anyway I ended up divorcing her. I later went to the church and asked a pastor if he would talk to her about our sex-less marriage and he did not. All I wanted was sex and intimacy with her. Beyond frustrated July 18, 2018 at 3:37 pm Having the same issue. When we got together she had a 1 year old. Whose bio father was and is still absent. The first year was full of passion. We had sex everywhere and anytime we could. After a few years the frequency went down. But I chopped it up to us living 30 mins apart and her career growing. It was a lot of stress and change. She also had a slipped disc in her back and had to have surgery. It took 2 months for her to heal up and get back to normal. It wasnt until we moved in together that the sex really dried up. At first it was hard because our son was not used to sleeping in his own room. At 5 she still insisted he sleep with us whenever he wanted. Then he got into the idea of sleeping in his room. Next up was someone has to lay with him until he falls asleep. She goes to work after me and gets home before me. In that time she wont get him situated so that when I come home hes at least had a bath and ate and maybe do his homework. Which leaves no time to wind down together. But she wont set boundaries and expectations with our son so she can get some rest. She does whatever he wants her to do. I have told her how unsatisfied I am with the lack of frenquency. It bums me out a lot and I dont want to leave this over sec. There are plenty of women that still flirt and make advances and of course I shut them down. I dont get why this is a issue. Two people who are in love should not be arguing over sex. I dont feel good having to ask or getting shot down when I go for it. And yes I do the back runs for rubs nice texts flirty texts getting the to do list done trying to do all the chores sometimes so she can relax and maybe feel rested enough by the end of wife falls asleep during sex night to want sex. Its making me depressed cuz I dont want to leave but im. J August 5, 2018 at 3:31 am Going to keep it short and simple. Sad world we live in these days. But then you realize, You have been. Your attempt at behavior modification per elite magazine has failed. Because you are not on an even playing field. To Withold sex for an off the cuff remark, will in fact make matters worse. He becomes more angry as time goes by. You are training him, to squash it. My suggestion, let the remark go. I gurantee you, those shitty remarks will continue, why. Because your punishment is like using a shotgun on your husband, because he stepped on your toe.

But things have changed a lot since then. Ask the Lord to help you reclaim the ground in your marriage that has been given to Satan… especially any ground that you gave to him. Whenever he speaks of marriage, including sexual intimacy, He longs for us to understand its significance. Her single mother has lived within a mile of us for the last 15 years of our marriage. He opens his eyes gets angry and says I know what I was doing what are you talking about? In the case of this woman whose partner falls asleep, I agree with the others who have said he's probably very tired. I said then what was that noise you were making? God designed sex for marriage, and as difficult as it may be to obey this command, He still asks that we do.